Hi Cherry, Love your videos! Love your comment that age won't matter to "YOUR man." I think I'll put my search feature for dating services a little younger than I have been (which is 9 years). I'm also young-looking/feeling with more energy than some 20-year-olds. I was at a singles dance recently and all the young men, 20-30 were asking me to dance because I could keep up with them, ha ha. One said to me, "Just watching you makes me tired." I'm 54. I don't want to date a 20-year-old, but 40 is probably fine (as long as he doesn't want babies. I'm actually open to adopting an older child, and of course any he already has is great, and I have two myself). I am setting my sights high this time, not settling for anything less than my "must have" list, which really isn't outrageous, but I have "settled" in the past. Age doens't really matter to me but good health and vibrant/youthful energy does. (And to Carol, if it's important to date a man the same age or older, then I hope you don't "settle" either! We each need to figure out what's right for us and stick with it!). Best wishes to everyone on your journey!